Veteran Nigerian comedian, Alibaba recently shared a post on relationships and marriages, and as expected, the post has got a lot of netizens talking.
In the post shared via his Instagram page, the ace comedian pointed out that many high achieving young Nigerian women have found it hard to find love or fulfilment in marriage because there are too many young men out there who are lazy, unprepared, unfocused and have no purpose for their lives.
Furthermore, he stated that most women in this generation have decided to pay more attention to themselves so much so that most ladies now pursue and achieve goals that set them in the right path for life. However, Alibaba stated that the same cannot be said for most men who have rather decided to be insecure about the success of these ladies.
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And when the young ladies decide to pocket the achievements and advantages they have, so they can submit to a man in that their age bracket, many of these men have been sooo beaten by the tides of life, that they are too busy fighting the wife they should work with. _ Any attempt by the wife to suggest to him to get up and do something to succeed, is treated as disrespect, nagging, pressure and sometimes stress. _ One guy was so broken by the frustration of not having made it since he graduated in 2010, and still without a job, that he wanted his Assistant Manager fiance, to move to his father’s house in Magodo, from the Oniru 2 bedroom, she presently occupied. _ Why don’t you move in with her and make your great moves from there? “Never. I can’t marry and move into my wife’s house.” That is from a 32 year old guy, who still lives in his parents house. _ Don’t get me wrong ooo. The economy is messed up. Our politicians have not done much to drag us out of the down turn. After elections, they start working toward the next election. _ The problem has left many young men, not ready to be married. They are not prepared or do not have what it takes to be a man that can take a woman as wife. And not just as wife, to even be able to provide as the head of the house. _ So the few men who are loaded and ready, are few and in very high demand. Many ladies can hurt any other lady who tries to take any rare find, of such a man. Especially if he has a house, good job, good car, looks good, dresses well and has very few defects. _ So what’s the issue? The issue now, is that, even when these kind of young men, meet young ladies, who (by any reason) had a headstart, the young men are too faaaaaar behind, ill equipped and unprepared in the sourcing for opportunities and management of the relationship. _ They are now slaves to ego, frustration, pride, peer pressure, poverty of mind and sometimes total disillusionment. _ Look around. Don’t say I told you. Everywhere. There are many, who don’t know what to do, how to do it, where to do it, when to do it… Even with a Masters Degree in Bus Admin, LL.M, BA.Arch, Bsc Statistics. Everywhere. _ THIS IS THE REASON FOR “Still single”
Reacting to the lengthy post, popular Nollywood actress – Yvonne Jegede stated in a few words that Alibaba’s post is the perfect representation of her life.
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