Nollywood actress, Omoni Oboli has released a lengthy statement in which she tackles the issue of the rape allegations from Busola Dakolo against Biodun Fatoyinbo.
The actress said that she took a little longer to respond as she wanted to properly gather her thoughts and look at the facts before jumping to a conclusion.
Omoni Oboli took time to address each of the criticisms against Busola Dakolo and the defenses for Fatoyinbo and countered them with her own thoughts.
You can read her post below.
I donât know where to start concerning the story thatâs still unfolding as I write.Â
The Bible warns us to âbe quick to hear, be slow to speak, and be slow to wrathâ, and going by my personal experience of seeing how quickly many took sides without first getting all the facts, weighing it against the character of all the parties involved, given our antecedents, and then drawing conclusions from evidence and an objective comparative analysis of the accounts, rather than from emotions, envy, the thrill of seeing strife, I have waited to digest the whole matter first.Â
Whatâs her motive for speaking out? Was it just to spite the pastor in question? Was it to destroy his reputation, or gain some financial advantage? Was it to build followership through the scandal that would surely come, not knowing that the pendulum could swing in either direction, for or against her? What exactly would spur a wife of a reputable and beloved entertainer, a mother, a business woman, with a beautiful life, coveted by many, to come out to make this kind of accusation?
Given her antecedent of being a calm, âdramalessâ queen (unless Timi says otherwise), with no history of seeking attention or being overly dramatic (at least not publicly), how did she get to this point of going public at such a time as this simply to make âspuriousâ accusations against a âman of godâ, as some have said in a bid to sound âobjectiveâ? I listened to the story, and because I know her husband, and his personality, I restrained myself from trying to weigh in based on the emotions that came flooding in, but hereâs the thing, there was some incoherency in some of the claims, not because I believe she lied about them, but in my opinion was born out of the truthfulness of the real account. Why do I say that? Because unless you planned your own rape, the accounts are expected to sound incredible and spurious, and I suspect thatâs why we donât have so many convictions in many rape cases. Is there a manual, or rapist playbook thatâs being distributed to all would-be rape victims (aka all women, and some boys and men) that I missed that gives point by point descriptions.
