Don Jazzy Insists On Having Sex Before Marriage To Ascertain Sexual Compatibility

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Sex before marriage or pre-marital sex is referred to sexual relations between two people prior to marrying each other. Historically, premarital sex was considered a moral issue which in many cultures is termed as a taboo and considered a sin by a number of religions.

However, in recent years, it has become more widely accepted, especially in Western countries because many believe that it enables them to ascertain their partner’s sexual drive before they get married – a school of thought one of Nigeria’s famous music producers, Don Jazzy subscribes to.

According to Don Jazzy, in a question and answer session with his IG followers, he stated that sex before marriage is a must for him because he wouldn’t want to be left disappointed after the marriage that he is not sexually compatible with his spouse.

In his words;

Oga I must chop the thing b4 marriage o, if you no gree kark one side. Church no reach der o😡

Deciding to not have sex before marriage is not a bad thing, and if that is what you want with your partner, it’s absolutely fine. However, choosing not to ascertain the sexual compatibility between you and your partner before taking such a huge leap as marriage is not advisable – and to determine this without actually engaging in the sex, good communication is all you need.

Ask all the questions imaginable and gauge whether you can live up to their opinions on accepting and giving sexual pleasure. It is never enough to limit your conversations to banks statements, the number of kids, etc – only to relegate sexual compatibility to a place of insignificance. It does not work that way.

In the end, if you have both reached common ground on the subject, then you can go ahead with the wedding plans. Whichever way you want it though, let it be known that sexual compatibility can be deciphered to a large extent without actually having sex if you both can effectively communicate your thoughts.

What are your thoughts on pre-marital sex? Share them with us in the comments.

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